A guy I know let me borrow a notebook of his that included a collection of quotes relating to the pre-existence and to the idea of "soulmates". I typed up the quotes and here they are:
Acts 17: 26-28
26 And [God] hath made of one blood all nations of men for to
dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined the times before
appointed, and the bounds of their habitation;
27 That they should seek the
Lord, if haply they might feel after him, and find him, though he be not far
from every one of us:
28 For in him we live, and move, and have our being;
as certain also of your own poets have said, For we are also his offspring.
All men are the spirit children of the Eternal Father; all dwelt in his presence, awaiting the day of their mortal probation; all have come or will come to earth at an appointed time, in a specified place, to live among a designated people. In all of this there is no chance. A divine providence rules over the nations and governs in the affairs of men. Birth and death and mortal kinship are the Lord's doings. He alone determines where and when and among what people his spirit children shall undergo their mortal probation.
--Bruce R. McConkie, A New Witness for the Articles of Faith, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1985, pg. 512.
Pre-earth life affects relations here. We have not come into this world accidentally. It is my opinion that there has been an inspiration to bring about certain relations that we are forming here in this life, and most likely they arise because of certain relations that existed in our previous life. (1 June 1895, DW, 50:737.)
--Lorenzo Snow, The Teachings of Lorenzo Snow, edited by Clyde J. Williams, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1984, pg. 93.
The Father called all spirits before Him at the creation of man, and organized them. He (Adam) is the head, and was told to multiply. The keys were first given to him, and by him to others. He will have to give an account of his stewardship, and they to him.
--Joseph Smith, Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, selected and arranged by Joseph Fielding Smith, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1976, pg. 158.
It does no violence even to our frail human logic to observe that there cannot be a grand plan of salvation for all mankind unless there is also a plan for each individual. The salvational sum will reflect all its parts.
--Neal A. Maxwell, But for a Small Moment, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1986, pg. 98.
LEGITIMACY OF ETERNAL MARRIAGE.—Why is a woman sealed to a man for time and all eternity? Because there is legitimate power on earth to do it. This power will bind on earth and in heaven. It can loose on earth, and it is loosed in heaven. It can seal on earth, and it is sealed in heaven. There is a legitimate, authorized agent of God upon earth. This sealing power is regulated by him. Hence what is done by that, is done right, and is recorded. When the books are opened, every one will find his proper mate, and have those that belong to him, and every one will be deprived of that which is surreptitiously obtained.—JD, 1:232, April 8, 1853.
--John Taylor, The Gospel Kingdom: Selections from the Writings and Discourses of John Taylor, selected, arranged, and edited, with an introduction by G. Homer Durham, Salt Lake City: Improvement Era, 1941, pg. 282.
In a manifestation to Brigham Young after the Prophet's death, Joseph Smith was reported to have instructed his successor as follows:
"Tell the people to be humble and faithful, and be sure to keep the Spirit of the Lord and it will lead them right. Be careful and not turn away the small still voice; it will teach them what to do and where to go; it will yield the fruits of the kingdom. Tell the brethren to keep their hearts open to conviction, so that when the Holy Ghost comes to them, their hearts will be ready to receive it. They can tell the Spirit of the Lord from all other spirits; it will whisper peace and joy to their souls; it will take malice, hatred, strife and all evil from their hearts; and their whole desire will be to do good, bring forth righteousness and build up the kingdom of God. Tell the brethren if they will follow the spirit of the Lord, they will go right. Be sure to tell the people to keep the spirit of the Lord; and if they will, they will find themselves just as they were organized by our Father in Heaven before they came into the world. Our father in Heaven organized the human family, but they are all disorganized and in great confusion."
Joseph then showed me the pattern, how they were in the beginning. This I cannot describe, but I saw it, and saw where the Priesthood had been taken from the earth and how it must be joined together, so that there would be a perfect chain from Father Adam to his latest posterity. Joseph again said, "Tell the people to be sure to keep the spirit of the Lord and follow it, and it will lead them just right." (72)
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72. Journal History, February 23, 1847.
--Hyrum L. Andrus, Doctrinal Commentary on the Pearl of Great Price, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1967, pgs. 122-123.
Deuteronomy 32: 8-9
8 When the most High divided to the nations their inheritance, when he separated the sons of Adam, he set the bounds of the people according to the number of the children of Israel.
9 For the Lord’s portion is his people; Jacob is the lot of his inheritance.
Yet another reason underlying the need to keep the seventh commandment is that unchastity lowers self-esteem, because we are actually sinning against our nature and who we really are (see 1 Corinthians 6:18-20). In my opinion we are also breaching previous promises made in the premortal world before coming here, promises which are imprinted, subtly but indelibly, in one's soul.
--Neal A. Maxwell, Morality, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1992, pg. 25.
Indeed, my experience in various church callings and in my profession as a family therapist has convinced me that God actively intervenes in some destructive lineages, assigning a valiant spirit to break the chain of destructiveness in such families. Although these children may suffer innocently as victims of violence, neglect, and exploitation, through the grace of God some find the strength to “metabolize” the poison within themselves, refusing to pass it on to future generations. Before them were generations of destructive pain; after them the line flows clear and pure. Their children and children’s children will call them blessed.
In suffering innocently that others might not suffer, such persons, in some degree, become as “saviors on Mount Zion” by helping to bring salvation to a lineage.
I have had the privilege of knowing many such individuals people whose backgrounds are full of incredible pain and humiliation. I think of a young woman who was repeatedly abused sexually by her father. When at last she gained the courage to tell her mother, the girl was angrily beaten and rejected by her.
These experiences made the girl bitter and self-doubting. Yet, despite all odds, she has made peace with God and found a trustworthy husband with whom she is raising a righteous family. Moreover, she has dedicated her energies to helping other women with similar backgrounds eliminate the poison from their own lineages.
I think of a young man whose mother died when he was twelve and whose father responded to that loss by locking his son in his room, then drinking and entertaining women in the house. When he would come to let the boy out, he would beat him senseless, sometimes breaking bones and causing concussions.
As might be expected, the young man grew up full of confusion, self-hate, and resentment. Yet the Lord did not leave him so, but provided friends and opportunities for growth. Today, through a series of spiritually healing miracles, this young man is preparing for a temple marriage to a good woman. Together they are committed to bringing children up in righteousness and gentleness and love.
In a former era, the Lord sent a flood to destroy unworthy lineages. In this generation, it is my faith that he has sent numerous choice individuals to help purify them.
--Carlfred Broderick, “I Have a Question,” Ensign, Aug. 1986, pgs. 38–39.
Invocation, or the Eternal Father and Mother
by Eliza R. Snow
O my Father, thou that dwellest
In the high and glorious place,
When shall I regain thy presence,
And again behold thy face?
In thy holy habitation,
Did my spirit once reside?
In my first primeval childhood,
Was I nurtured near thy side?
For a wise and glorious purpose
Thou hast placed me here on earth,
And withheld the recollection
Of my former friends and birth.
Yet ofttimes a secret something
Whispered, "You're a stranger here."
And I felt that I had wandered
From a more exalted sphere.
I had learned to call thee Father,
Through thy Spirit from on high;
But until the key of knowledge
Was restored, I knew not why.
In the heavens are parents single?
No; the thought makes reason stare!
Truth is reason, truth eternal
Tells me I've a mother there.
When I leave this frail existence,
When I lay this mortal by,
Father, Mother, may I meet you
In your royal courts on high?
Then, at length, when I've completed
All you sent me forth to do,
With your mutual approbation
Let me come and dwell with you.
--Eliza R. Snow, Poems, Religious, Historical, and Political, Liverpool: F.D. Richards, 1856, Vol. 1, pgs. 1-2.
With regard to our position before we came here, I will say that we dwelt with the Father and with the Son, as expressed in the hymn, "O My Father," that has been sung here. That hymn is a revelation, though it was given unto us by a woman-Sister Eliza R. Snow. There are a great many sisters who have the spirit of revelation. There is no reason why they should not be inspired as well as men.
--Wilford Woodruff, Millennial Star, April 9, 1894, 56:229, also Brian H. Stuy, ed., Collected Discourses, 5 vols., Burbank, Calif., and Woodland Hills, Ut.: B.H.S. Publishing, 1987-1992, Vol. 3, pg. 410.
Abraham 3:22-23
22 Now the Lord had shown unto me, Abraham, the intelligences that were organized before the world was; and among all these there were many of the noble and great ones;
23 And God saw these souls that they were good, and he stood in the midst of them, and he said: These I will make my rulers; for he stood among those that were spirits, and he saw that they were good; and he said unto me: Abraham, thou art one of them; thou wast chosen before thou wast born.
Birth into mortality is not a matter of chance occurrence or of uncalculated purpose. All is in accordance with a plan. Those who are in a lower division in the pre-mortal estate are born into this life under circumstances that best suit the opportunity to rise above that division, where the normal condition of their place has that encumbrance fitted to their own worthiness. Those who were in the less valiant division will be similarly born into mortality for the same intent of purpose. Those who were the noble ones, such as Abraham and such as all those who were born in the covenant of the patriarchal order, an order which was in the beginning and will be in the end, are consequently born into such a lineage of birth as will preserve their place which they had accepted in pre-mortality and are assigned to in mortality by foreordination.
--Alvin R. Dyer, The Meaning of Truth, rev. ed. Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1973, pgs. 33-34.
It was during this period that Harold and Fern decided on marriage. The affinity they seemed to have had from the moment of their first acquaintance had ripened into a fast friendship, and that, in time, had developed into an enduring love. Neither of them, apparently, could identify a moment in time when it had become clear to them that they wanted to be man and wife. Indeed, it seemed in retrospect that their union had been foreordained.
--Francis M. Gibbons, Harold B. Lee: Man of Vision, Prophet of God, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1993, pg. 80.
What did we agree to before we came here? If to anything, I suppose the very same things we agreed to since we did come here, that are legitimate and proper. The husband agreed to be a faithful servant of God, to do his duty to all that were placed under his charge. The wife, on her part, covenants that she will be a faithful and devoted wife, and will obey her husband in the Lord in all things. If this were so, it is all right; for it is just as we are taught on the earth.
But the question is, Did we subscribe to any such doctrine as this on the start? I will not say that we did; yet I have had such thoughts, and they whisper strongly in my heart.
--Orson Hyde, October 6, 1859, Journal of Discourses, 26 vols., London: Latter-day Saints' Book Depot, 1854-1886, Vol. 7, pg. 315.
This young couple, both in their early thirties, he an attorney and she a schoolteacher, were still honeymooning, and their deep, newly found love for each other was most evident. When I said, "I want to talk to the two of you about your husband becoming a bishop," she said, "Some nights ago I had a dream indicating Randy would be a bishop. I just hoped it wouldn't come too soon." She continued with, "Even though we are newlyweds [and incidentally, they told me the reason they had waited until their thirties to marry was because they had spent a long time finding each other], if you are impressed to call Randy to be a bishop, he will be a good one, and I will help him."
--Marvin J. Ashton, Be of Good Cheer, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1987, pgs. 23-24.
I was a boy when my people gathered with the Saints of God. I was very curious to know the Prophet Joseph, having heard a great deal about him. I happened to be in a large crowd of people where the Prophet was, and I selected him out of that large body of people. There were no means of recognition that I know of which would suggest him to me as the Prophet; but I recognized him as though I had always known him. I am satisfied that I had known him and been familiar with him. There are instances which all of us doubtless have known, which have proved to us that there has been a spiritual acquaintance existing between us. We frequently say, "How familiar that person's face is to me." In this way kindred spirits are brought together. We are drawn together by this knowledge and this acquaintanceship, which, I have no doubt, was formed anterior to our birth in this state of existence.
--George Q. Cannon, Brian H. Stuy, ed., Collected Discourses, 5 vols., Burbank, Calif., and Woodland Hills, Ut.: B.H.S. Publishing, 1987-1992, Vol. 1, pg. 235.
With her acceptance of his marriage proposal he became firmly convinced of his earlier feelings that she had been divinely designated to become his wife. In 1963, a quarter of a century after their marriage, he told his son Douglas, "Your Aunt Jessie always belonged to me. I know that the Lord intended it. And the Lord sent her to me when I needed a wife and needed help and somebody in the family to help us and take care of us, and the Lord had raised her up and sent her to me. And oh, how grateful I am, for she has been just as true and faithful as anybody could possibly be, and we all love her!"
--Joseph Fielding Smith, Jr., and John J. Stewart, The Life of Joseph Fielding Smith, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1972, pg. 256.
I have had visions and revelations instructing me how to organize this people so that they can live like the family of heaven, but I cannot do it while so much selfishness and wickedness reign in the Elders of Israel. Many would make of the greatest blessings a curse to them, as they do now the plurality of wives—the abuse of that principle will send thousands to hell. There are many great and glorious privileges for the people, which they are not prepared to receive. How long it will be before they are prepared to enjoy the blessings God has in store for them, I know not—it has not been revealed to me. I know the Lord wants to pour blessings upon this people, but where he to do so in their present ignorance, they would not know what to do with them. They can receive only a very little and that must be administered to them with great care.
--Brigham Young, April 6, 1862, Journal of Discourses, 26 vols., London: Latter-day Saints' Book Depot, 1854-1886, Vol. 9, pgs. 269-270.
Life simply does not make sense without a knowledge of the premortal existence. Reason dictates and the Holy Spirit whispers to our spirits that we have always lived. Truly, as Eliza R. Snow affirmed, we feel in this life as though we have “wandered from a more exalted sphere” (“O My Father,” Hymns, no. 292). We do not know how long we spent in our first estate. By mortal reckoning it may have been of near infinite duration. During this period, Jehovah, under the direction of the Father, created worlds without number; this presupposes an extended period of time. We would imagine that, during this existence, the same sociality which exists among us here existed among us there. Our circle of friends and associates undoubtedly included many with whom we share association here. The natural kinship that we feel with and for some is obviously rooted there. Thus we have some degree of recollection upon the reunion with such spirits in this estate though the reason therefore may not be apparent to us. (See Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, pp. 12–13, 311.)
--Joseph Fielding McConkie, Joseph Smith: The Choice Seer, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1996, pg. 105.
There are premortal principles that affect mortality. From those passages of scripture [Acts 17:26, Deuteronomy 32:8, Acts 10:34-35] we learn these basic principles: First, all men on earth are of one blood—we stem from common ancestors, Adam and Eve; second, God, our Father, in his omniscient wisdom, determined premortally the nation in which we were to live; third, nationalities are apparently circumscribed in relation to the House of Israel; fourth, our Father does not favor one people over another, but accepts all those of every nation who fear him and work righteousness. (79-01, p. 33)
--Howard W. Hunter, The Teachings of Howard W. Hunter, edited by Clyde J. Williams, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1997, 12.
(Letter written to Elder O. F. Whitney who was a missionary in England.) I heartily endorse your sentiments respecting congeniality of spirits. Our knowledge of persons and things before we came here, combined with the divinity awakened within our souls through obedience to the gospel, powerfully affects, in my opinion, all our likes and dislikes, and guides our preferences in the course of this life, provided we give careful heed to the admonitions of the Spirit.
--Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine: Selections from the Sermons and Writings of Joseph F. Smith, compiled by John A. Widtsoe, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Co., 1939, pg. 12.
I stood before God's mighty throne;
The time had come to leave my home;
My pilgrimage before me lay;
This was the long-expected day.
For ages past I'd walked by sight;
Now faith must be my guiding light;
To find the Truth, the Light, the Way,
I must be housed in mortal clay.
Before I left, my Father spoke;
"Go now, my son, bear well thy yoke;
I send thee forth to keep my law,
To worship me with reverent awe.
"Thy first concern in that new sphere;
Find her whom thou hast chosen here;
These children shall I send to thee;
Choice shall thy chosen family be."
And so I came as Adam's son,
To seek all that may be won,
By those who love and serve their God,
And bow beneath his gospel rod.
To me has come that law divine,
By which I may my name enshrine,
In realms of life and light and love,
In those eternal courts above.
And God be praised, she here is found
Who in celestial garments gowned,
By me shall stand as ages roll,
To comfort, guide, and cheer my soul.
To us have come those spirits dear,
Whom we must lead and guide and rear,
And teach to love and serve the Lord,
And sing as one each gospel chord.
Our home is one where joy abounds,
Where God is served and praise resounds;
Where gospel light in splendor shines,
And each of us its truth enshrines.
--Bruce R. McConkie, poem in the prefatory pages of Joseph Fielding McConkie, Sons and Daughters of God, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1994.
